I think just a card and cash is appropriate for someone you don’t really know, and probably less than $100 unless you’re both rich.
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softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Why are so many second-generation South Asian and Chinese Canadians planning to vote Conservative?English7·1 day agoI don’t think either major party will offer much better really. The Conservatives get to ride on being the opposition and the viable supposed alternative to what’s been happening recently.
softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Why are so many second-generation South Asian and Chinese Canadians planning to vote Conservative?English142·1 day agoI have doubts about a pursuit of whiteness and model minority stereotyping. No matter what immigrants or their children do, they’ll always be hyphenated-Canadians at best, facing discrimination, suspicion, and hatred from “real” Canadians, conservative or not.
Instead the factors are much more tangible-the current government has overseen the relationships with both countries degrade severely, with severe impact to these groups. When you’re trying to care for a sick grandparent abroad or whatever else, the last thing you want is a two-faced political approach that risks having you stranded away from home.
And then what role did the government have in building up the current levels of hate towards immigrants with their policies? For decades academia has been allowed to turn international students into cash cows with zero regard for their quality of life. Businesses whining about wages getting too high after the pandemic meant that immigrants were brought in with no place to live and no livable income. And then scapegoated for cost of living increases spawned by decades of bad policy, by the governments who brought them in.
Immigrants are expected to put in to a system that’ll have them work twice as hard to get half as much, if that, and hate them for it. It’s not “I got mine, fuck you”, it’s “you’ll never give me mine, I’m just an exploitable tax base to you, we’re not going to pretend anymore”.
It’s pretty much everybody but go off I guess
https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf
softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Jordan Peterson begging his cult to vote for Pierre PoilievreEnglish23·2 days agoHe’s going to start crying again isn’t he
In the first place I think a better way to establish “is life in this given place good”, would be to address to good vs bad in that place, as opposed to the good in that place vs the bad everywhere else.
If you must make the point through comparisons, using the weakest possible arguments while standing in for the opposing side makes it seem you’ve either want to misrepresent it, or don’t feel secure enough in your position.
I could get into the factual claims that could be challenged but maybe that was the AI. There’s absolutely an argument that Western media and cultures create intense, xenophobic biases, but there are more compelling ways to make it.
Using a one-sided narrative to counter a one-sided narrative comes off as disingenuous to me. Despite Marx’s urging, the US turns out to be the place where a worker can strike with his union and own a gun.
softcat@lemmy.cato Technology@lemmy.world•‘Make all women yours’: Rape game available online for Australian childrenEnglish13·2 days agoIt feels like they turned an article about this weird rape game into a Netflix ad.
softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•By Attacking Science, Poilievre Takes a Page from Trump’s PlaybookEnglish33·2 days agoWe’ve already seen it happen in Canada under Harper, there’s no doubt that it could happen again.
softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Poilievre unveils ‘three strikes and you’re out’ crime plan. Will it work?English4·2 days agoThe supreme court would ultimately strike it down, and I only see it as a ploy to bring in private prisons, but at the same time there’s a genuine problem in this country with sentencing habitual, dangerous offenders. I can think of at least three women in my province murdered by people who just kept getting in and out of jail for violent crimes their whole lives. One was even on day leave from the prison, which seems like insanity.
softcat@lemmy.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Some Conservative supporters question whether the polls can be trustedEnglish53·2 days agoThe biggest, wealthiest, most advanced polling firms in the US couldn’t get it right either, horrendously so in recent memory. I don’t think that’s down to conspiracy, but how to weight your samples when so many people don’t want to answer a phone call from an unusual number.
softcat@lemmy.catoEurope@lemmy.ml•On 21 April, Germany will deport me – an EU citizen convicted of no crime – for standing with PalestineEnglish94·3 days agoStarting to think a ban from there should be considered a rite of passage.
softcat@lemmy.cato Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is you opinion on the parents who tell their kids to "keep your head down" and "don't cause troubles" such as "being a dissident" or "going to protests"?English5·3 days agoDepends on the extent of how much you’d do and if you’d get noticed, really. Leverage being applied against you or your parents could occur, particularly to or via relatives in China, but only if you’re deemed worth the effort. I wouldn’t take that risk, personally, but that’s a very specific, individual decision.
The US is another matter. Sure you’ll go on a list but everyone’s on a list of one kind or another, we’re both on one for using Lemmy most likely.
Would there be any validity in your parents thinking your concerns about this are getting in the way of improving your own life?
softcat@lemmy.cato Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Vice president of Bikers Against Child Abuse chapter arrested for sex crimes against childrenEnglish183·3 days agoJust when you thought it was safe to trust a biker, something like this happens. Now where will I get my crank and human trafficking?
softcat@lemmy.cato News@lemmy.world•Donald Trump explains his 90-day tariff pause: People were getting "yippy"English11·4 days agodeleted by creator
softcat@lemmy.cato Android@lemmy.world•How to start using the new Linux terminal on your Android deviceEnglish12·4 days agoIs this not just…termux?
softcat@lemmy.cato Europe@feddit.org•Ukraine captures Chinese nationals fighting for Russia, says ZelenskyEnglish1635·5 days agoRussia could demand that every country with a foreign volunteer for Ukraine answer for them, they’d rightly get the same brush-off.
Two guys (who knows, maybe even three) who are Chinese nationals serving in the Russian Army and not PLA soldiers doesn’t mean “Chinese troops”, it’s Russian troops.
I’ve seen this during boarding in the UK and US so far. Both times it was like a self service section at a grocery store- errors half the time holding up people and the gate agents having to fix the issue, scan themselves, or best of all, just go “yeah go ahead” without scanning anything.
Hopefully it will improve in time.