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Don’t eat a entire box of thin mints.

Inform their family, depending on how nice the local police are - ask them to do a wellness check.

For your personal mental well being, I would recommend going low contact with a suicidal person, they will drag you into their drama and pull you down.

I genuinely think they are. Look at how they frame their question, they didn’t say they were on the verge of suicide at this moment, they just implied it heavily. That is a tactic to manipulate people and conversations. So I think their assessment is accurate.

I know you’re being extremely sarcastic. But identifying you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Knowing you are a way that you don’t like being, is great, now you can form a plan on improving it.

Let’s take the easy example, if you know you’re a very negative person always putting people down. You can deliberately try to find something nice to say everyday. Maybe not a lot, maybe it won’t change the trend, but being more mindful and having an objective is a way to improve. So yes flip the switch. The switch will be very rusty, it’ll require a lot of elbow grease, and you’re probably going to have to wiggle it a bunch. But flip the switch, because you want to flip the switch.

If you just decide, I’m an asshole and there’s nothing I can do about it, then you’re just going to be an asshole. But if you’re trying to be a reformed asshole, you’re an asshole with a heart of gold

If you don’t want to be an emotional abuser, and you’re aware that you are, why not change your behavior?

https://www.privacyguides.org/en/vpn/

Reminds me of bash.org RIP https://bash-org-archive.com/?top

• “Where ever you go, there you are”
• “We have just enough fuel to make it to the crash site”
• “Ruh-Rouh”
• “Deny, Deny, Deny - Until you believe!”
• “A Rule without Enforcement is just wishful thinking”
• “When life gives you lemons- BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD”
• “Ignoring a alert is the same as normalizing alerts, if it’s important, don’t ignore it, if it’s not important don’t alert for it”
• “Follow the money” - Gripping Hand I think
• “Premature optimization is the root of all evil” - Knuth maybe
• “Once you know something is possible, doing it becomes a exercise in persistence.”
• “Science isn’t what other people say, its what YOU can observe”

Take this list: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_English-speaking_population

Intersect it with this list: https://www.worlddata.info/average-income.php

And you get

• Philippines - 70m English Speakers - Average Hourly Income $1.44
• India - 228m English Speakers - Average Hourly Income $0.90
• Nigeria - 125m English Speakers - Average Hourly Income $0.66
• Pakistan - 108m English Speakers - Average Hourly Income $0.51

etc, etc

When you want a Entry level online only job, your now competing with the global workforce.

You can get paid more when geography matters (so in person, or for legal reasons), culture matters, language matters (we already narrowed down to English for this example), skills matter (more difficult the skill, higher the remuneration), relationships matter (people know you, so they trust you to work remotely)

What are you offering, able to do, that someone from one of the low cost countries can’t do in order to justify $20/hr? That’s what should be driving your job search.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recurrent_laryngeal_nerve

You already are a knot!

Not much will change, this guy has been president before, he spend more time on the golf course then in the oval office.

I expect lots of embarrassing speeches and truths/tweets, but other then that the purple party autocrats will be running the country like they always do.

Uniqueness. How common is the name.

Lots of people are named Donald. Not many people are named Kamala

Though in some circumstances Trump has been referred to as " the Donald "

A good starting list :

Elon, musk, trump, Biden, Harris, fascist

It’s pretty straightforward. If the apology is expressed around how the other person perceives things. It’s not a real apology.

I’m sorry you feel that way. I’m sorry you think that. I’m sorry you took that misunderstanding from me.

In fact, in these situations, it may be better not to apologize at all. I realize some of the language I use isn’t great, I’m working on it, please understand I’m not going to be perfect at it.

Don’t add the while your around bit.

I’m going to work on improving my language, and I’ll be mindful going forward, it’s a very deep habit, so please bear with me.

Even if it only works sometimes, there is still a use case with a benefit. I.e. speed throttling on tethering

And yet even with that pitfall there is a valid benefit of using a shared VPN over the hotspot. Specifically making your data look like it’s coming from the phone so it isn’t throttled by the carrier as tethered data. The failure scenario being the data goes slower.

I recognize the problems you list as valid, and yet there is still a beneficial tradeoff decision to be made.

No need to insult me, I both read the GitHub and understand how VPNs work.

There is no point in using a vpn if you don’t care if your data leaks outside the tunnel.

Sharing VPN from a phone over a hotspot, means all of that traffic looks like it’s coming from the phone.

True, but don’t let perfect be the enemy of good.

Sharing VPN from a phone over a hotspot, means all of that traffic looks like it’s coming from the phone. Admittedly if the VPN dies, the routing will bypass it. But the benefit here is immense, if you use visible, you have unlimited data from the phone, but very slow data on tethering. Sharing the VPN from the phone, gives you unlimited data on the hotspot. That’s a pretty good trade-off